Pops and Son Conversations
Join US Air Force Veteran, Presidential Achievement Award Recipient, author, philanthropist, and social media influencer, Rob Malloy, and his son, author and model, Javan Anderson, as they navigate the generation gap with humor and heart.
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Pops and Son Conversations
Libra Season, Family, And Balance
What does balance really look like when life gets loud? We open October with birthdays, family energy, and a grounded nod to awareness month causes, then get honest about what 31 and 50 have taught us about growth, legacy, and being present. Jay frames his early 30s as a rediscovery—testing old beliefs, owning creativity as a public craft, and building a father’s toolkit that goes beyond money into mindset and resilience. Pops answers with gratitude and focus at 50: honoring a brilliant mind without scattering it, acting on vision before doubt creeps in, and protecting relationships from the small stuff that steals irreplaceable time.
We dig into Libra season without fluff: balance as a daily practice, not a personality quiz. Charm is real, but patience is rarer. Social energy is strategic—turn it on for the room, turn it off to recharge. Our aesthetic eye catches details others miss, a gift that needs empathy to stay kind. When it comes to dating a Libra, the playbook is simple: don’t rush the process, respect solitude, and bring your real self. Quiet is not a problem to fix; it’s a place to rest and feel safe. High energy and calm can coexist when the goal is harmony, not performance.
Threaded through it all is legacy—how we use our talents, time, and presence to leave people better than we found them. We talk setting goals without shame, rolling them forward with intention, and teaching the next generation to think clearly, love deeply, and execute when purpose calls. If you’re navigating reinvention, protecting your peace, or trying to love someone more thoughtfully, this one meets you where you are and nudges you forward.
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Welcome to another episode of Pops and Son Conversations. And yes, it is your favorite silver fox, Ramalloyd.
SPEAKER_01:And yes, it is Tech Three Times, J, man here.
SPEAKER_00:And welcome. Hey man, it's October, Jay. Happy birthday, brother.
SPEAKER_01:Thank you, Pops. Happy birthday.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, yeah, definitely. Uh so you know, we get an opportunity to show some love to the Libra nation out there, man. We gotta show some love to you all. So a lot has been happening. Uh had a birthday party, uh, had a birthday dinner with Jay. And man, we really just uh, you know, we've been inspired this month of October to make sure that we continue to push our agenda of, you know, making sure that the fathers and sons are represented, man. So we've been doing a lot, man. We've been getting it in. How you feeling?
SPEAKER_01:I'm feeling good, Pops. You know, this is uh October is always my favorite month. Not just because it's my birthday month, but you know, I always enjoy the weather. It's I always like some events and stuff going on. So uh yeah, I'm feeling good. I'm feeling good.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, uh, let's go ahead and get some things out the way uh real quick. So uh we want to make or put on notice that it is breast cancer awareness month every October, but of course every day is the awareness and and the purple one. JD, do you know what the the the purple ribbon is about?
SPEAKER_01:I don't. I'm not familiar with the purple ribbon.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, so when you see the purple ribbon in October, it's domestic violence awareness month.
SPEAKER_01:Okay, I did not know that.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, man, that's uh that's what it is. Now it's it's a few other things going on. I I may mention those a little bit later in the episode, but yeah, those are the two that we definitely want to make sure that you guys understand. Um, you know, matter of fact, um being a coach of special needs kids, or I guess I'm kind of like a retired coach now, right? Um but big shout out to the Down syndrome awareness, which is the blue and yellow. Um big shout out to my uh, you know, to my kids um out there, man. I kind of miss coaching them and you know, spending some time with them, man, because uh that was definitely an important part of my life where I was able to contribute in a different way than usual.
SPEAKER_01:Right, yeah, that's dope too. Yeah, for sure. Super dope.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, so um, yeah, man. So let's kind of jump into this thing here, real quick. We know that you guys have uh been excited about some of the things that you've seen us do on social media, you know. We've been participating in some different events, uh, that we've been able to uh you know have a really good time. So it's time to get back to work.
SPEAKER_01:Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_00:So so we're here to get back to work. So we're gonna talk a little bit about the Libra life and lifestyle and lessons. Yeah, Jay. So we I'm gonna start with you, man. Now you just turned 31.
SPEAKER_01:Just turned 31.
SPEAKER_00:Right. So uh, so that that's a new era for you, man. So how does that feel for you?
SPEAKER_01:Uh if I gotta be completely honest, then this this era for me is, you know, in a lot of ways, it's almost like a rediscovery era for me. You know, I I I'll harken back to when um I say like maybe like 18 and 21, it's kind of got the same feel because it was like I knew it was like a new beginning. It's like you know, you're 18 and then 21, you know, you're legal and everything. But then at 30 and 31, it's like it's it's it's just a different air, you know what I'm saying? I'm learning new stuff about myself, I'm learning new stuff about the world. You know, I'm challenging some of my older views at a younger age and and coming to you know different uh conclusions about things and just how I think. So uh I think rediscovery is a is a good a good word for how I feel about it.
SPEAKER_00:I agree with you, man. You know, uh watching your growth and development, uh, you know, as a father, as an entrepreneur, just as a young man navigating through this world, you know, it's not easy, man. I I think back to 30 for me, and um I had a whole bunch of responsibilities. I ain't even gonna lie to you. I mean, I was married at 30. Um, you know, uh there were certain things that I felt like I needed to have. I felt like I needed a house and a couple of cars. I know I was never worried about pets, though. That's one thing that I never felt that I needed to acquire, man. It wasn't like you know, I need a I need a Roddy in the house, man. I need a pity. I need some pit bull puppies, man. Never went through that phase, man, ever, ever. But yeah, so you know, technology, uh just evolving and you know, really wanting the best version of yourself, man. And not only that, building a legacy, man, it's it's a lot on a black man's back, brother. Yeah, it's a lot. So um, you know, turning 50 was like um it was nostalgic for me because I it made me look further back than I wanted to. Like I'm 50, but why am I looking at what was going on when I was 18? But uh, you know, it does put a lot of things in perspective because it let me know that there's nothing that I could have changed or nothing that I would have wanted to change because I may not be here. I may not be the man that I am now, I may not be the father that I am now. And so, you know, I don't I don't worry about what I can change, but uh in the past, but what I do look at is uh you know my footsteps in front of me. So so at 50, of course, you have this awakening of you know um your aesthetics and uh your uh mental awareness and toughness and uh you know what you can withstand your bandwidth and things like that, man. So, you know, these these last few weeks have have been you know really interesting and it put me in a real interesting space, man. But I'm glad of everything that's going on around me. You know, I'm I'm proud to see what you're doing, um, and that you're laser focused. Uh, you know, your sisters, you know, even looking at you know, my parents wanting to be closer to them and making sure that they're good. So now I have this like uh this really um patriotic feel of what's going on around me, a little bit more awareness. So it's a really interesting space.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, nah, I love it. You know, I um well, I I'll go. I want to do a callback to the I don't know if we did we already talk about the uh the dinner, the uh the part the party.
SPEAKER_00:Nah, we didn't talk about the party, man. Go ahead.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, I just I just because hearing you talk about that, I just I'm just getting like flashes of that that scene, you know what I'm saying? And just, you know, you being there, and then you know, of course, I did my poem or whatever, and then um, you know, my baby sister was there. So it was just like it was just a different, you know. I I had never, I guess I just never kind of felt, you know, that type of energy before. So I just I just thought it was real dope. I think maybe I'm that energy that you feeling maybe is radiated, and I'm getting some of that too. It's basically what I'm saying. Just picking up on that.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, yeah, for sure. Uh, you know, big shout out to everybody that came out to the party. Uh, we had it at Timeless uh Kitchen and Cocktails. So big shout out to the owners there. Um, you know, much love for everybody that participated, and and again, uh Jay, you had uh an amazing moment of uh I would say speaking life, man. I wouldn't even go into poetry or spoken word, man. You were just speaking so much life, whether it was the present, the future, or the past. Uh baby sis, you know, she she uh enjoyed introducing you and she's trying to get a little shine in, right? Like she tried to get a little three minutes of fame.
SPEAKER_01:I wasn't mad at it.
SPEAKER_00:I wasn't mad either, right? Wasn't even mad. She was looking around, like all these people are way older than me. Uh yeah, baby, this is this is a grown folk business, right? Like you wouldn't be here unless I was here, right? So uh yeah, so good times, man. Thank you everybody for the gifts, for the love. Uh, you know, also participated in Atlanta Cigar Week. Uh Jay came to a few uh with me, man. So that was uh uh Atlanta Culture Week is actually what it's gonna be called moving forward. So, you know, shout out to the owners and creators of that. Um, so just just a really good time. So let's let's move forward, man. Um, I I wanted to first make sure people understand when we talk about Libra season, we're talking about very specific dates. Like people really don't even know their uh zodiac signs, like they just know their their window, right? They're a week before them and a week after them. But uh we're talking about the dates uh starting September the 23rd uh through the 22nd. So that's uh that's that Libra season that we're talking about. So of course I land uh about a week into it, and then you know, after I get things cracking, Jay flies right through, you know what I mean? Uh about a a week and a couple of days after. So uh so let Jay, can you can you actually name some of the characteristics of a Libra? Now I don't know if we need to go into male, Libra, female. Let's not do that because we'll that's a whole nother episode, right? Oh yeah, yeah right. So just some of uh maybe some of the characteristics that people are accustomed to, and then maybe uh that they'll be learning from us today.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, for sure. So I um I always feel like I was a true Libra. You know, I always felt like I really exemplified that. So I don't even really have to look at a list to tell you, you know what I'm saying? Like what Libras definitely weren't charming. You know, we we we just we got that charm, you know, it's it's it's just something about it. Um Libras are naturally um like we're kind of like naturally social. And we don't really like it's kind of like a twofold thing. Like you got some Libras that like they turn it on and they could turn it off, and then you got some that's just like it's just like that. Me personally, uh-huh. I like I have it, but sometimes I ain't got it. But like when I got it, it's like, oh yeah, you know, you like you know, you feel like that guy. It's like the charisma, yeah, the charm, it's all there. Um a few more, uh definitely, you know, Libras are the scales, that's our symbol. So we are all about balance, harmony.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah.
SPEAKER_01:You know, it's it's uh it's uh very diplomatic. And then another thing too, which is also very true, aesthetics. Libras are really, we have a really good eye for aesthetics, art, beauty. Um, you know, these these are people that really can put you know uh the fashion together, or you may have some really good artists, or just a good eye for art that could uh that could uh decorate or design really well. Um so yeah, so that's just a few, but yeah, definitely for me, the charm sticks out, the aesthetics, I don't know. I just have a really like for me, I it has to be a certain way. If it doesn't look right, to me, I'm like, this is not it. I don't like it. And I can tell like right off the bat, I'm like, man, I'm no, that's I don't like it.
SPEAKER_00:That's a good point. Hey, hey, you know what? That's that's a really good point. Uh when you talked about kind of throwing the uh in the social setting, man, throwing it on and throwing it off. That's me all day, man. You know, people ask me when they meet me, they're like, yo, you be outside. And I'm like, no, no, you only see me when I'm outside. Like, and if you do, it's just that one time. I may I may post like maybe two or three of the same scene of that night throughout the week. So you thinking that I done went to about three or four events, or I hosted three or four events, nah, baby, that's just that one night, right?
SPEAKER_01:One night only.
SPEAKER_00:One night only. But uh yeah, I definitely turn it on and turn it off, man. I have to tell uh the folks that I'm with sometimes. I'm like, look, you know, I'm gonna get through this, I'm gonna have a good time, and then I'm done. Like uh uh I'm through. Like people are like, well, hey, what's what's what's next after this? Home.
SPEAKER_01:Home next. That's what I'm saying. I think people forget like that. It can be it can be exhausting. Like being in a social setting, and then especially if you're gonna be like the light or the life of the party or whatever the case is, like that can drain your energy. Like, you can't do that night after night after night. You got to you got to go home and recoup, you gotta build that back up.
SPEAKER_00:That's it. Guaranteed, man. Guaranteed. So so I do want to do this, man, before we uh we pivot a little bit. Uh I want to talk about uh when it comes to these characteristics, man. Uh, I'm gonna throw a few of them at you and let me know how this relates to you and uh and your lifestyle. So I'm gonna run a couple by you uh real quick, man, and and then we uh we can keep it moving. All right. So uh when it comes to a Libra characteristics, uh characteristic, do you believe or or do you agree or disagree that uh Libras can be very indecisive when choices are involved with others' feelings, like wanting everyone to be happy?
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, yeah, I 100% agree with that. I suffer from it, I agree with it. I I mean that sounds like my life story. Uh that's definitely true. I'm I'm always going over things in my head first, even before I, you know what I'm saying? I speak because I'm thinking about how somebody else may feel or you know how my decision may affect them. So yeah, yeah, 100% agree with that one.
SPEAKER_00:Okay, all right. So uh Libras um are very uh how do you say it, very visual. Like very when it comes to the aesthetics, man, they're very aesthetically inclined, man. Very, very visual. How do you feel about that?
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, yeah, that's true. I agree with it. Like I said, I I can tell looking at something for a few seconds, I could tell you what's off. You know what I'm saying? I could tell you which picture is leaning to the side a little too much. Like, yeah, I this is a fact.
SPEAKER_00:Okay. All right, so so how about like how about in a woman though?
SPEAKER_01:Like how do you feel like are we just saying, like, as oh now let me get the question right now. We saying, because you said visual aesthetics, like are we just saying, like I could, you know, which which woman got the package together, right? Like who got it on? Yeah, yeah, let's go there. Let's go there.
SPEAKER_00:I mean, you know, of course we could talk about art, you know, artists, cool, uh, arts and crafts, if you will, but let's let's talk about the human anatomy.
SPEAKER_01:Right, right, right, right, right. Yeah, so I definitely, you know, you definitely for me, it sticks out the attention, like the details, like I'm detail-oriented. Okay, you know what I mean? So I'm looking at I'm looking at the face, I'm looking at the hair, I'm looking at what you, you know, what you got on. And it's not even like I want to do it per se. It's like I can't get past it. It's gonna stick out regardless.
SPEAKER_00:It's a gift and a curse.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, I'm not even looking for, I'm just like, man, I really noticed how uh like you know, yeah, sometimes it's too much though, right?
SPEAKER_00:Like I cannot be this detailed, like I should not be this detailed in what I'm looking at and noticing.
SPEAKER_01:Can't help it, can't help it, man. You I almost have to draw it, like I have to draw it back and be like, all right, the average person would not even be fixated on this like so. Let me just tell everybody has their flaws or whatever, like we all humans, so don't be too critical. Definitely think being critical is a is a Libra, is a Libra trait for sure.
SPEAKER_00:It is, it is. Okay, so uh let me let me get one more in there. So okay, so how about um empathetic? Like you to the point to where you you're almost thinking on behalf of the other person or taking their feelings in consideration before they even say anything.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah. Now this one, I I do believe I agree with that as a Libra trait. I do. But I if I I you know if I'm being honest with me personally, I think I may have, I don't think my empathy bar is at the max. I don't think it's at the max. I think I could work on that. Um I do, I do feel like this, it's it's a Libra trait. Just because of what I said earlier about how, you know, anytime I before I do something, before I say something, I'm always thinking about how that's gonna affect the other person. You know what I'm saying? So I don't know if I'm always, I don't know if that's like a a me thing or if I'm like thinking about that person or if I'm just trying to save face for myself. And I'm being super honest right now. Yeah, yeah. But but I don't know if it's like if it's me or if I, you know what I'm saying? Like it's a thin line because either way it goes, it's for the greater good of both parties, but you know, I don't know if it's like me being selfish about it or if I'm really trying to be empathetic. But I mean, I I don't think it's a bad thing either way, though, because like I said, yeah, either way, I'm trying to, you know, do the best, what's gonna be best for everybody at the end of the day. Including myself, though. Including yourself. That's what I can't leave up.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah, I I think that that's uh I think that's cool though. I think uh taking that in consideration, man, is is just somebody who who really cares, you know, and of course it's gonna be case by case, because you know, there's there's individuals where you will probably curtail your feelings and and expressions, and then there's others that you may think a little differently. So it's definitely case by case for show. For sure. Okay, Jay. So this is what I want to I want to finish the show with, man. I I want us to talk about just kind of like you said, uh life after 30, uh, you know, your thought process, your uh the things that you, you know, may have took inventory of, you know, up to this point. And then, you know, your you know, your future plans, like your new goals or the goals that you still have that you uh want to make sure you complete, whether it be, you know, before the quarter's out, fourth quarter, or whether it's something you want to make sure that you knock out before the first quarter of 2026.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah. Yeah, so um for sure, like I said before, um, you know, turning 30, being in my 30s now, it's like that big step, that rediscovery, and really just kind of learning myself again, learning because I think that I had um, you know, I had come up with this idea of what I wanted or who I wanted to be. And, you know, I had to be honest with myself and kind of really look again at what I enjoy, what I like. Because um I think it's so easy to just kind of get caught up in and looking around and seeing, you know, what's working for other people or what's working just out in the world. But if it's not really making you happy and you're doing it, then, you know, what are you really doing it for? So just kind of rediscovering like my my real passions, which is of course has always been writing in poetry, but it's just a difference between, you know, how they say making your passion, your profession. Okay, well, you know, you could say that, but it's a difference between actually um, you know, putting that into, you know, putting that into play and really sticking to your guns and making something out of it. So that's been um a main focus now more than ever. Like, and and and I've I've seen the growth and the progress because before, you know, I've I'm I'm I've written so, so much, but actually getting in front of a crowd and and really putting it out there or even just coming up with, you know, things about current events, like writing about things that's going on today and kind of giving my commentary on it, which is you know, also adds value to not just the poetry, but you know, just you know, my my idea could spike somebody else. So um, yeah, so you know, just just right now is just balancing that and then just come and just continuing, you know, striving towards a goal, you know, with with my son, you know, he getting older. It's like the only thing I'm focused on at this point is making sure I got what I need so that I could pass down, you know, to him and make sure that, you know, that he's you know, equipped, I think, with is is is the best is the best word. And and when you think about that, it's not just a monetary thing. You know, I'm still learning and and and getting my info so I could pass that down to him as well. So, you know, still still the legacy vibe, still the entrepreneur vibes, and still striving towards the goals. Now, the goals. I I have my goals set for for 2025, and I accomplished some of them.
SPEAKER_00:Yep.
SPEAKER_01:So I didn't accomplish all of them, so we're gonna roll some more over to to next year. I have no shame in that. You know, the goal is the goal. Until I until I achieve it, it's gonna, you know, it's it's gonna be uh pinned at the top. So um, yeah, we still got we still got some more work to do, but you know, I'm full steam ahead, and it's really no looking back at this point.
SPEAKER_00:That's solid. Uh that's really solid. Uh I'll be I'll be brief because I do uh believe we had you know something that had came through in one of our inboxes uh about Libras. And so being that this is pretty much uh capping off the Libra season, we want to get that question answered. So I'll just say, you know, for me, man, life uh at 50 is uh gratitude, a lot of gratitude and gratefulness. You know, uh I look at just being around is is a big deal because there's so much happening to the left and the right of us, man. So just being around, being in a in a solid state of mind, uh focused, appreciative, thankful. Um, but what I did learn about myself is that I have a brilliant mind. And when you have a brilliant mind, man, you really can't let your foot off the gas because you have all these ideas, you put all these irons in the fire, and you can really get lost in the sauce, man. You know, you could just have too much going on, and so you have to refocus, you really have to line up your goals and and attack them and accomplish them. Like, don't leave anything unfinished because uh God gives you these visions and these experiences to implement right away. Like if He gives you a vision and you know that it's something that you can literally do, like do it, don't sit on it, don't question it, damn sure don't give it to anybody else to try to uh translate and create for you, man. You really have to you really have to stand on those uh those those ideas, those visions that God gives you, uh, and uh and make it happen right away. Um, because it's gonna be a building block, you know, for something even bigger than you. So, you know, that was something that was really near and dear to me, and and really just to kind of love on those folks around you. You know, uh tomorrow's not promised. You you don't want to be in a situation where you have you know unresolved issues with your family members, and you know, you not talking to somebody or somebody not talking to you, and you feel like they gotta text you first and all that. That stuff is frivolous, especially if you don't get the opportunity to see or spend time or even talk to that person. Now a text message or being mad that somebody said something to you is dumb. Now it's dumb, right? Because you you lost the whole experience to be able to share with someone because they're no longer here or you no longer here, whatever the case is, it's a missed opportunity. So uh, you know, just uh being appreciative and you know, just continuing to have solid strong relationships, especially those that you know you care about and care about you. So that would be my thing for anybody. You know, definitely uh live in the moment, but be very intentional that uh tomorrow's not promised, next year's not promised, and even opportunities um aren't promised. So you want to take full advantage. Yeah, so all right, so let's get this question out the way, man, and we're gonna wrap things up. So we have uh something that came through uh our DM, if you will, and so we'll both answer answer these. Uh I'll let you answer this first, uh Jay. So uh somebody asked, what is it about Libras that you should uh want people to know before they date you or try to get to know you and and to navigate those quote unquote Libra waters? So uh what what would you want people to know? And you can you can speak specifically and generally uh in this matter, Jay. So what do you what do you want what what should people know about Libras, man, before getting to know them or dating them?
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, what what you should know uh first off, um I would say that um you have to be you have to be you you have to be patient. And when I say this, um what I mean is that you have to be patient with their patience because Libras are very patient. And for some reason, that can unnerve people. Like if you're too patient, I don't know what it is, but a lot of people don't like like they want you to be in a rush, they want you to do things a little bit quicker, whatever the case is. But um, you know, a lot of Libras don't move like that. Like we we got to, like I said, assess the situation, balance things out, yeah, you make sure everything makes sense, and then we can move. We're not going to act now and then think later. We're gonna think first and then make a good decision afterwards. So um be patient um with your with your Libra and just know that you know it's not gonna be a uh an expeditic process. You you may be, you know, chilling for a little bit, and that's cool. You know, stop and smell the flowers. Um so yeah, I would say that. So obviously, don't you probably shouldn't be trying to rush them. That's one of my pet peeves. I hate to be rushed. Um so I would say that's like the biggest thing. I would say that's the biggest thing, man. Be patient and don't rush. But um, I mean, other than that, what what you should know, like Libras love to, we love to love, man. Like we love, you know, we we are the romantic types, we are the types to um, you know, we we don't mind being in your presence. We we like to that quality time and all that good stuff. But at the same time, we like solitude as well. So, you know, I I can speak for myself. Like I I love my time, you know, day in and all that too, but I like my me time as well. Like I it's it's it's times where I don't want to be around anybody, you know, and I appreciate that that that solitude. Like that's my that's my piece right there. So yeah, I would say them two things the patience, and just know that um, you know, you may be dealing with a Libra that. Values his solitude as well. So don't feel any type of way.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah.
SPEAKER_01:Just know that, you know, brother needs didn't need his time sometimes.
SPEAKER_00:That's good, man. You know, all I could do is really uh second that emotion and kind of piggyback um off of that. I I feel the same way. You know, um, I I would even probably add uh to the fact of uh, you know, for me, less is more, right? Less is more. You don't have to do a whole lot, you you don't have to overextend yourself. Like I'm gonna look at it the same way, right? I'm gonna whether you do a whole lot or or whether you whether you uh you know you're patient um with me. So I'm the type that you know you don't have to prove yourself to me. Like just be who you are. Uh you know, you know, there's a lot of folks out there, man, that feel like they need they need that reinforcement and validation. Um, I don't need that, Jay. Like, you know, so so certain things that you know may make a person feel a little bit more comfortable and confident and and wanted and things like that, you know, if you learn a little bit more about me, you know, I don't necessarily need those things, you know. So I just want a person to be genuine. Uh, I want a person to to uh get to know me, kind of learn me, you know, uh, because you can ask a person, well, well, tell me what you like. Well, I I can tell you what I don't like, right? It's easier if uh if I tell you what I don't like, because what I do like is that I just like uh authenticity, I just like organic moments. Like for me, man, there's no awkward silence because we we don't have to talk. Right. There's no awkward silence. You want to be quiet, cool. I want to be quiet too. I'm perfectly okay with with uh you know silence. It truly is golden. Like I'm not tripping off of that. And uh, you know, I just I just like the process of discovering, discovering what you like, uh, discovering you know what what makes you happy, and just kind of rinsing, repeating those things. Doesn't have to be a whole variety of things, or don't you know need to have these uh interventions and things like that. What works is what works. So I would say uh to to any lady out there that is deciding to get to know um, you know, to get to know uh a Libra is what you see is what you're gonna get. Like we're we're really big on balance. So if if you have uh a high energy, it's not that we're gonna have a low energy, it's just that you know what goes up must come down. So there's gonna be some balance to it. So you know, so don't trip. And really, man, just just enjoy those moments, man. Cherish those moments, don't overthink, don't overanalyze. Allow every unique experience to be just that, man. Allow it to be unique. And uh, you know, and that's all I got for them, man. That's that's really all I can say. And and just uh again, enjoy every moment and um be who you are, you know, to the core. So we can love that person.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah. 100% agree. 100% that's all they need. That's all they need to know.
SPEAKER_00:Hey, look, we enjoy uh the fact that we get an opportunity to share our experiences with you. Of course, we talked about uh Libra lifestyle and lessons, and uh, you know, we encourage you guys to embrace every single day. Tomorrow's not promise. Make sure you tell somebody that you love them, make sure that you enjoy every experience and make each one unique. So, with that being said, look, man, we enjoy you guys. We appreciate you. We're signing off, Pops and Sun Conversations. It is your favorite still Fox Rob Malloy.
SPEAKER_01:And it's Jay. Check three times. We out.
SPEAKER_00:We gone.
